My Healthy Love

You Deserve Healthy Love, Sis!

October 31, 2007 on 1:05 am | In Dr Grace's Book Reviews |

I’ve written this frank, lively volume to give single women a simple, workable plan to help them find their true ideal mate and cultivate a healthy love relationship, from dating to mating– and beyond.  You Deserve Healthy Love, Sis! offers a practical and empowering prescription for rich, honest love that will withstand life’s challenges.  This Barnes & Noble bestseller is packed with insightful tips on how to date with the utmost confidence and avoid the damaging pitfalls that can sink even the strongest relationships.  Organized into seven sections, discussed in dept are pre-dating issues, particularly baggage from former affairs, dating advice and long-term relationship maintenance.  There is a special section which addresses the tricky early stages in courtship.  Although dedicated to African-American women, this healthy relationship building book is perfect for any woman who is tired of settling for Mr. Wrong and is ready to find healthy love with her soul mate.

I’ve selected these three chapters to give you a peek into the useful and helpful advice which is contained in this healthy relationship guidebook: 

Step #2: Check Your Signals Before You Wreck Your Choices

It is a blessing indeed to have a compatible mate you can work, play, and love with throughout life.  But in order to get to this stage, you have to get past the acquaintance and dating stages first.  Many times in the initial phases of our relationships, our intentions can be very easily misunderstood.  It is painful and disappointing when you think you’re putting your best foot forward, but then realize that the time and effort have all been in vain– not because the person was unkind or mean to you, but because your dialogue and the interchange you shared were not properly received.  Have this ever happened to you in the past?  This chapter shows you how to evaluate the personal messages you may be sending, directly or indirectly, to potential suitors.   

Step #3: Don’t Be Fooled–Read Him Well and Remove the Mask

Wouldn’t you like to be a “fly on the wall” and eavesdrop in order to get the scoop on what really goes on in men’s heads, hearts, and discussion groups?  Well, rest assured, I have done the work for you!  This chapter will answer a lot of questions for the wide range of women I frequently encounter in my travels, seminars, national conferences, and on TV and radio talk shows, who ask, “What happened?  He was so nice in the beginning, then he just changed. Why?”

Step #5: Refusing the Wrong Date and Choosing the Right Mate

Contrary to popular belief, there is a wide pool of available bachelors to pick, choose, and refuse if you’re willing to get out and expand your horizons.  Whether your soul mate is a banker, baker, or candlestick maker, you won’t be able to recognize him if your mind is clouded with preconceived notions.  It sometimes gets too overcrowded at the safe end of the pool.  For example, are you limiting your choices to a certain type?  It’s okay to have a preference– everyone does– but to be limited to only one type is self-defeating.  Sis, don’t just swim in the shallow end of the pool.  Sometimes when you swim in shallow waters, all you end up with are shallow-minded mates.  Be open to the idea that your soul mate may be packaged in a body temple that is outside the scope of what you think is your “type.”

This is not just another relationship book.  It is a tailor-made, well-crafted blueprint that will guide you step-by-step to achieving a better and healthier love live with a healthy-minded mate.  You Deserve Healthy Love, Sis! shows you how to get to the heart of men’s motives, understand what makes them tick, create long-lasting relationship with them, and more important, meet and marry your very own soul mate (just as I did)!  After reading and following the seven steps in You Deserve Healthy Love, Sis! within a short period, you too (like hundreds of women before), will be writing me to share the good news of finally getting the healthy relationship that you want and deserve!